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My Tarot Valentine ’24: Build a Cup

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My Tarot Valentine is a series of blog posts with one card Tarot readings from the collective energy with a focus on love, romance and relationships. I’ve collected the old posts from my previous blogs (TaoCraft Tarot and Modern Oracle Tarot) into an ebook. This year I’m continuing the series with a look at finding your soulmates (twin flame, life partner – whatever term you like to use) all through the lens of the Tarot suit of wands.

Wands are symbolic of fire, philosophy, spirit, and your relationship with yourself.

What does ‘self’ have to do with romantic relationships?

Everything.

Like attracts like. Be the soulmate you want to have in your life.

For example the Three of Wands is about active preparation, optimism, looking forward to a bright future.

If you have found your soulmate, actively cherish them. DO thoughtful things, emphasis on the the thoughtful. In this respect, all of the card suits are engaged, no just the wands. Even if you’ve been together for decades, it’s ok to show your emotion (cups) with thoughtfulness (swords) in any tangible (pentacles) way that hints at the depth (wands) of your feeling.

If you don’t have a relationship like that in your life, and if you want one, then the idea of preparation for something that may or may not ever happen seems odd.

But, on the other hand, how can that special someone step in where there is no room.

If loneliness and searching for your soulmate fills your psyche, there is little room for an actual soulmate to come in. If you are filled with certainty that they exist, the same thing can happen.

Only an empty cup can be filled. Hold space in your life for love to come in. The walls of that room, the sides of that cup are constructed of you – you being happy and healthy and living the best life that you can. That’s the thing that creates the space. That is the thing that prepares the place in your life for soulmate to walk in.

My Tarot Valentine ’24: It Takes Two (Wands) to Tango

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It’s easy to say the number two cards of the minor arcana are about balance. Pentacles talk about moving balance, swords about the known vs the unknown and so on. Beyond the easy to say idea of balance, the two cards hint at something more philosophical: duality.

To say “balance” is to imply that there are two or more things that need to be balanced. Even if you have just one plate spinning on just one stick in the circus act of life, you are still balancing the plate vs gravity vs angular momentum vs why are you doing a circus act in the first place…

The Two of Wands is particularly dialed into this aspect of balance. Where there is duality there is choice.

When it comes to relationships, choice isn’t control.

You have total agency over what you do and say and give and take from a relationship, but you have no say in your love interest’s response.

It is heartbreaking when their response is rejection.

Which shows how precious it is when the response is love in return

But whatever happens, the choice always returns to you. When you are given the precious thing, it is up to you to make choices that protect and nurture it. If you are given the heartbreaking thing, it is up to you to make the choices that help you heal. That includes the choice to reach out to other people in other ways and get help when it is needed.

Either way, our response is our choice and our responsibility. Like the two upright wands on the card, our choice is our portal. It our doorway to relationship, to the great privilege of loving and nurturing others but also to loving and nurturing our own path through life, whatever shape that takes.

The Two of Wands’ Tarot Valentine for you is simply this: choose love.

That doesn’t mean other people will choose to give it back to you. It does mean that you always have the option of giving love be it to another person or to healing your own life path.

It takes two to tango and two to make a romance happen but it only takes one person to choose love even when it is out of our control where that love lands.

Learn With Me: Lenormand, Soft Landing

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It’s the end of the month, and tomorrow I hope to start a new series with a different spin on “My Tarot Valentine” – a look at the fourteen cards of the suit of wands with an eye to your relationship with yourself, a key step on the path toward finding a good long term relationship. That being said, this feels like the right time and the right cards to bring the Lenormand series of Learn With Me posts in for a soft landing.

Lenormand and RWS has both key differences and key similarities. Lenormand is much more reliant on the layout and the connection between the cards than RWS style. One card readings aren’t as useful because the connection to other cards is so essential to the overall understanding. With the smaller deck, Lenormand does seem to be more forthright, and less nuanced. Lenormand relies on pure intuition, or so it seems to me, with regard to reversals, use of the playing card insets, and so on. The grand tablau layout is rediculously muddled, chaotic and unhelpful to my eye, while a two card reading is incisive and clarifying.

They typical decks, from what I’ve seen, have a muted vintage color palatte. The Healing Light deck by Christopher Butler used here is a stand-out with its rich colors and artwork. Of all the Lenormand decks I’ve seen, this is far and away my favorite.

Today we have Clouds and The Anchor.

Clouds to Mr. Butler’s reading symbolizes confusion, foggy vision, lack of clarity. If it to the left of other cards, as it is here, then the difficulty is read as temporary.

The Anchor is steady, routine, something intractable. Especially when paired with the Coffin card, it can reference a bad habit or something else that needs changed but is very resistant and difficult to change.

Today the core of the reading occupies a place between the two of pentacles and the Temperance card. Rather than clouded vision, fogginess or confusion, the thing that grabs my attention with the cloud card is change.

It is in the left side position that the guidebook suggests is most likely to change. Clouds change often and easily. “Mercurial” and “capricious” comes to mind. Anchors are the opposite. They resist change. They are employed to stop change. Avoiding all change is as effective as tying an anchor to a cloud. If these cards resonate with you, what do you need to anchor and what do you need to let drift away naturally

It’s time to end the series. It’s time for a soft landing. It’s time to anchor the important things and let this topic drift away – at least for now.

What would you like to learn next?

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You Choose: Card for the Week (29 Jan 24)

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King of Wands

The kings have been conferencing! The right message will always find you even if it seems like a mistake at first. I’ve mis-typed ‘king of pentacles’ twice. It feels like the king of pentacles is chiming in along with the king of wands. It’s a blend, not a substitution, so there are two threads of energy running through this card’s message.

There is a sense of practicality from the pentacle’s energy along with a strong sense of self from the wand’s energy. Kings are leaders and protectors. Combine it all and go do what needs done. Pay attention to details. Do all due diligence. That kind of work, practicality and prevention are a form of self protection and self care. Remember it is always easier to put out small fires before they turn into big ones.

The Hierophant

Sometimes called the Pope or the High Priest, this major arcana card is all about internal growth and personal development. It feels like this is the week to break old habits, make new ones, step outside of your comfort zone – especially in terms of social conformity. Use your inner wisdom. If this is a week for other cards to share energy with the ones we see, the Queen of Cups is the one chiming in here. You have deep knowing. Use it to go your own way (in fact, the Fleetwood Mac song by that name pops up here) Take the wisest action, even if it is unpopular at first blush. Being a people pleaser isn’t always the wisest thing for you, or for the people you are trying to please.

The High Priestess

The High Priestess is the guardian of the mysteries. Unlike the other two cards, this energy is all her. The word “portal” comes to mind, along with “the flow of time.”

“Time and inspiration must intersect” is the core of it.

It’s ok to not know something. It’s ok to not have the answers. One of my all time favorite ideas in Tarot actually comes from a physicist. Richard Feynman, known for his work in quantum mechanics and quantum electrodynamics, once said “I’d rather have questions that can’t be answered than answers that can’t be questioned.”

And there is more to life that facts and knowledge. Emotion, spirit, wisdom, experience and all the many facets of being human have their role to play. Those things come in time, at their own time.

So often people come to Tarot to know the unknowable future. Tarot doesn’t have all the answers. Sometimes its best function is to help you ask the right questions – and then wait for the right time for the answers to come.