Happiness isn’t at your fingertips. It’s inside them.
Looking for happiness is like trying to buy a one of a kind item that you already own. Or to paraphrase the adage Mark Salzman references in Iron and Silk – looking for happiness is like looking for the donkey you are already riding on.
Only you can decide what, if anything, makes you happy. Only you can decide if and when you are happy. No one can else can make you happy – only you.
And if that is true, then no one else can take your happiness away.
“No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.”
I’m loving the Alleyman card today – mostly because I am in my happy place, at home drinking coffee, watching the Olympics and knitting.
Very often, the Four of Wands is associated with community celebrations in support of the family or individuals within that community – think birthday parties, weddings or baby showers.
Sometimes there is a sense of sanctuary, with some sort of shelter in the art work, be it open and symbolic or a literal structure. The Pamela Smith RWS deck artwork shows both a wedding chupah and a fortress or castle.
The open shelter images also give a sense of a portal or a gateway. This kind of energy doesn’t come as often as the other, but it steps forward today.
Today is the most optimistic week-ahead energy I’ve felt in a long time.
I hear “ripe with potential.”
I know, I know – that’s not the exact adage, but I’m not going to go all grammar police on the powers that be. I hate pedantry.
I also get “opportunities are what we make of them.”
This isn’t the time to let up. Keep up the pressure. When the christofascists rock back on their heels even a little bit…push harder.
Doors can be shown, doors can be opened, but we can’t walk through them for another.
We must each walk through each door for ourselves.
Or shove unwanted energies out of them.
It is a week of portals and possibilities.
It’s up to you what to draw in, push out or walk through.
Deck in video: Alleyman’s Tarot by Seven Dane Asmund, used with permission Publishing Goblin LLC
Feel what you feel. Emotions are what they are. They come. They go. They are valid while they are here, but it is OK to let them flow away as easily as they bubbled up.
Be gentle with yourself and kind to what you feel today.
“…the storm is a good opportunity for the pine and the cypress to show their strength and stability.”
Life can be a dumpster fire. Or a sudden storm. Or a dumpster fire in a storm.
When that happens…and it always does at some point for everyone…you do what you have to do to make it through.
During those times stability and comfort zones are sometimes more helpful than striving, goals or lofty ideals – even our so-called “personal growth.”
When the dumpster fire is particularly raging, it can help to get granular, get smaller but more stable. A lower center of gravity is more stable.
But so is flexibility. The tree that bends in strong winds doesn’t break. That is why coastal cypress trees are a classic symbol of strength in the storm.
When the storm comes, it is an opportunity to be the creator and protector of your own little bubble of strength and stability. You alone can’t stop the storm, but you can control your reaction to it. You can control your hunkering down and seeking shelter, protecting you and yours as best as you can.
The protective, competent, powerful, self-confident energy of the Emperor card reminds us of this.
Anything helps. Anything is better than nothing. This is where all the little milquetoast platitudes and meme-ish affirmations take on some actual value. Anything you can do to create a little stability for yourself, anything that will foster the strength and flexibility that you need has benefit. Meditation for even a few minutes, sitting and staring at your morning coffee for a few minutes, say that affirmation to yourself in the mirror, scroll and inspirational social media feed – draw that Tarot card.
You don’t have to be a towering redwood. A short and supple pine tree will do just fine.
If enough of us become our own little cypress tree, soon we can have a whole forest that can withstand any storm.
Two things piqued my interest in Lenormand Tarot. First, a friend described them as giving blunt, direct, plain-talking, hit-you-over-the-head. That alone was enough to prompt me to get a deck and explore. Then an episode of The Circle is Podcast with Mat Auryn and Rachel True confirmed my experience with the deck with their own observations: The cards connect in a linguistic, sentence-like way.
It is part of the Lenormand technique to interpret cards in the context of adjacent cards instead of the context of layout position meanings as in RWS style Tarot. The cards seemed to me to be a combination of short, direct, blunt, frying-pan-to-the-face messages in a short but very connected format, like a two word sentence. In the case of these “Action Eases Anxiety” layouts it is noun-verb, specifically current energy and what to do about it.
Today, the cards are so blended they don’t even keep that minimal subject/verb sentence order. They meld together into a single message. The book hints at knowledge. Lenormand doesn’t usually pay any attention to reversals, but in the reversal feels significant, and related to the hidden and inner knowledge energies in recent readings with the queen of wands and the last Action Eases Anxiety layout. Christopher Butler, in the Healing Light guidebook connects the stork with change and “upheaval” – both an understatement here in the U.S.
In essence we are advised to study the old, lofi, hidden, analog, offline, real world ways to learn how to survive the upheaval at hand. Humans have done this before. The knowledge about how to choose your side and live well in it exists, but is hidden, to protect it.
There is a saying that to go fast, go alone, but to go far, go together. This is a time for slow, steady, collaborative work. It isn’t even about progress. It’s about living. Being.
It’s ok if you are not ok.
One step. One day. One moment. Existence is enough. Do what needs done to survive the day.
It’s ok if you are ok.
It’s ok to like who you are right now. Self improvement isn’t all it’s cracked up to be. Be kind. Be decent. Everything else is someone else’s thought and opinion and in the words of poet and artist Ryan Summers “it’s none of your business what other people think” (or something close to that, sorry if I misquoted you, Ry)
Slow and steady, do the work that you think is important. Do the work that you want and need, slow, steady and kind.
Wishing you a day of being good with whatever is. After all, your thoughts about you are the only ones that matter.
Sage Sips / TaoCraft Tarot 
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